Sometimes, when you’re going through a rough time, or when depression may be showing its ugly face again, it may be hard to feel grateful for what you do have. It’s easy to despair when chronic illness causes debilitating pain, or when luck doesn’t seem to be on your side.
The age of information has several advantages. It’s never been easier to find answers to burning questions. With a few taps of a keyboard, a sea of information can be yours, and research has moved beyond card catalogues and long hours in libraries (though you should still spend long hours in the library).
This easy access to information is both a blessing and a curse. Continue reading “Is Your Health Research Good Enough?”
I’m experimenting with a new way of writing down my memories. I’d love to know what you think. Do you like this type of writing, or do you prefer a simple “this is what we did” account?
I love reading.
But this love didn’t start early. As a child, I loved writing, but reading really wasn’t my thing. Recently, I had an epiphany. When I was a child, I was pushed fiction books to read all the time. That’s about all we were given (other than textbooks, obviously) as kids in school.
There were never books about various interests, just “stories.” And while I enjoy reading the odd fiction book now, my preferred genre is non-fiction. Whether it’s business, self-development, or my favourite, memoirs of those with interesting stories to tell, I love learning through reading.
Perhaps I didn’t enjoy reading as a child because I was never given the choice of what to read. That has all changed now, of course, and my love of reading, combined with my love of acting, has created a great opportunity to read to my children and use all the different voices and accents I can make up. This means I’ve been reading more children’s literature, as well as more fiction.
Our family enjoys both fiction and nonfiction, and of all the things we left behind before we came on this trip, the most difficult to put into storage were our books. We did bring some books on the trip, however, as well as eReaders and a tablet for ease of book carrying.
While some would argue that listening to an audiobook isn’t “reading,” to me, it doesn’t matter. Yes, of course you should read print whenever possible, but just like tablets in education, there’s a time and a place for listening to audibooks.
For example, for children who don’t yet read, listening to audibooks (or a parent reading) helps them to develop a love for literature early on, and I would argue, even an interest in learning to read. For children who need to be in constant motion, audiobooks provide an opportunity to enjoy literature while still allowing for energy expenditure. And for those who are on the road, like us, audiobooks means being able to carry as many books as we like, and still have a chance to discover new and re-discover old literature.
On this trip so far, we’ve had lots of time to do reading, whether that be on our own, through audiobooks, or with me reading to the family while my husband drives. But what if you’re not on a road trip, and you simply don’t have the time to read? Make the time.
Reading is such an amazing activity, and has a tonne of benefits. It expands your knowledge, relaxes you, and builds your vocabulary, among other benefits. But in today’s rushed world, it’s hard to find the time to enjoy these benefits. Here are some simple ways to enjoy reading, even when you’re short on time.
1. Do it in short bursts
Even 5 minutes of reading a day will relax you and allow you to take a break from your busy life. Set aside 5 minutes of your lunch break or 5 minutes after a meal to read a page or two.
2. Put the phone down (unless you’ve got a eReader installed)
Stop scrolling through social media during your commute or when you’re bored, and replace that time with reading time. You can even use your phone for reading time if needed.
3. Make use of the tools available to you
If carrying a book is burdensome, use an eReader or even an eReader app on your phone. Reading is reading; use the tools available to you to read in the most convenient and efficient way for you.
Although multitasking has earned a bad rep in recent years, when it comes to reading, it might be worth a try. If you’re already fitting exercise into your day, why not add reading to you exercise? Here’s where audiobooks work wonderfully. Listen to a book as you run, cycle, or lift weights.
5. Remember to read what you like
I didn’t like reading as a kid because people constantly told me what to read. Now that I’m an adult, I pick books that interest me, and I enjoy reading so much. If you pick books you enjoy rather than the ones you think you “should read,” you’ll be much more successful in your quest for more reading time.
How do you fit reading into your day?
We are truly enjoying our nomad lifestyle so far.
I love life on the road; it feels like home to me. I’ve always enjoyed travel and adventure, and after turning our first dream into a goal and accomplishing it, it was that much easier to make other dreams into reality.
Some families certainly inspired us along the way. Whether they’re temporarily or permanently nomadic, here are a few families that inspire us to fulfill our travel dreams. Check out their blogs; you won’t be disappointed.
1. World Travel Family
I’ve followed this family for a while, and I love the tips they share about the travelling life with kids. They’ve been travelling the world by plane for many years, and I especially love the way they showhe road can actually be much cheaper than staying at home.
2. Crazy Family Adventure
I love this family and their RV’ing adventure. They share lots of awesome reviews about the places they visit, as well as tips on how to build a bridge business before making your blog your main income earner. I’ve learned a lot from them, and I think you’ll love their blog.
I love the pictures & inspirational quotes this family shares on Instagram. They also vlog on Youtube @4NutsinaShelll, but as my data is running out very quickly these days, I haven’t watched their videos. Getting plenty of inspiration from what they share on IG, though 🙂
4. The Dirt Bag Baby
Another family I follow on Instagram is TheDirtBagBaby. These awesome adventurers set off on the Apalachian Trail when their baby was just 1 year old, and through-hiked. Then they set off on a mountain bike adventure. They’re well worth following for family adventure inspiration.
5. Live Family Travel
If you can think of a type of family travel, this family’s done it. They share tips about how to travel and work remotely, how to take a sabbatical, how to allow children to attend school in different countries, and more. If homeschooling isn’t for you, but you still want to travel with your kids on a regular basis, the tips this family offers will give you a glimpse of what’s possible.
Do you recommend any other family travel blogs? Let me know in the comments! Feel free to add your own 🙂
Romance after kids: Is it possible?
I’m not going to lie: romance after kids is hard. After having my third child, romance fell to the bottom of my priority list. Between diaper changes (and EC life), caring for two toddlers while breastfeeding and getting used to a newborn, keeping up a house and cooking, there wasn’t much time left for anything else. By the end of the day, I was completely exhausted, and I just wanted to sleep. And many moms of young children feel the same way. But it doesn’t have to be like this. Keeping the romance alive in your marriage is not only possible, it’s an important part of a thriving relationship.
It’s a sad statistic that 13% of marriages end within 5 years of a child being born. But it’s also not difficult to see why. You’re adding a whole new person to your life, after all, and priorities certainly shift when this happens. A baby needs their parents 24/7, and there’s often resentment on the primary caregiver’s part when their partner isn’t as involved as they should be.
There’s also the sheer exhaustion of interrupted and low quality sleep, because babies don’t care how tired you are. While dealing with all of this, it’s no surprise that some (or a lot) of stress is added to your marriage. But there are some things you can do to make romance after baby a reality. Here are some tips.
Before any tips will work, it’s important to remember that when you have young children, the ability to adapt is paramount. So maybe you can’t leave your newborn, breastfeeding baby for three days while you go on a romantic vacation, but you can certainly still have a few romantic moments. For example, you could get a baby carrier and take a stroll holding your partner’s hand. It’s not a honeymoon in the Bahamas, but it’s something.
2. Make date nights at home a regular thing.
Sometimes, moms and dads alike are way too tired to get out of the house after caring for baby. When that’s the case, a romantic date night at home makes sense. You can have dinner by candlelight with baby nearby, watch a movie or an episode of a TV show while sharing a drink (yes, breastfeeding mothers can drink in moderation), or look at old photos together. The options are limitless; you just have to be a little creative.
3. Show your partner your appreciation.
Whether it’s thanking them for doing their part in the hard job of parenting, telling them you love them on a frequent basis, or committing to giving them a passionate kiss everyday, show your partner you love them and appreciate them, despite your shifted priorities.
4. Remember: the days are long, but the years are short.
Believe it or not, there’ll come a time when you have fond memories of the difficulties of parenting. My kids are still pretty young, and I still remember how hard things were when they were newborns. Yet, sometimes I miss it when they were babies and dependent on me for everything (and didn’t have the words to talk back…)
Don’t let the stress of parenting take away from the love that made you a parent in the first place. Sometimes, when we’re exhausted, it’s easy to only see the negatives. Remember to see the positives, too—chances are, your partner is also exhausted and you both need each other’s support. And if you really feel like you’re taking the brunt of the parenting tasks, it’s time to ask for help.
5. Communicate clearly about your needs.
If you’re exhausted and feel that you need more help, simply ask. Many women complain that their partners aren’t involved enough in household and parenting duties; yet, they have never spoken to their spouse about their frustration. Your partner can’t read your mind, so it’s important that you simply ask for the help you need. Tell your partner lovingly and specifically what kind of help you require. You will probably get the help you need, and save yourself a lot of resentment and friction in your marriage.
Remember to keep communicating, set aside at least one day a week when you spend some one-on-one time with your spouse (even if it’s with baby in tow), and remember the love that made you parents in the first place.
How do you keep romance alive in your marriage?
A lot of people ask me why we chose to homeschool. It’s hard to answer that question in a simple sentence.
A long time ago, I had decided I’d write a quick post about something I was thankful for each day. Reality is that publishing this post every day just didn’t happen. But I do want to try this again, so I’m going to try and see if I can at least publish one post per week about the things I’m thankful for. And what better day to do it than on #ThankfulThursday?
What is the best exercise everyone should be doing?
The best kind of exercise isn’t one single activity.
Our time in New Brunswick was short, but really memorable.
Back in Quebec, we decided to purchase a Discovery Pass, and I’m really glad we did. The Discovery Pass grants you entry to all of Canada’s National Parks and several historic sites, so it’s totally worth it if you plan on visiting more than 2 or 3 of these places in a year. The pass is for 12 months, so it’ll last us until next year, which is great.